You cannot set yourself to good relations, thus from any probe you will always have yourself pinging both on the map and the sound. I believe(and I beg) that this is a bug and that at the very least the players on the list to control a probe will not be pinged.

Also, at least from corp mates you will currently not get the ping on the map if you have proper relations set, but you will still get the pinging sound. For the love of my sanity I would like it to stop making that sound every 10 seconds if I have my UI sounds turned up. Currently I have to disable UI sounds greatly reducing how effective probes are.

These are just the 2 that I found most annoying in their effectiveness.

Also, a great job on the interface for probes, the presents and remote interface for probes are absolutely fantastic.