I've seen this argument quite a lot in Eve, and my answer is always the same.
Once you hit the same level in a skill/extension as I do, I am no longer ahead of you. Sure I might have 23 more level 5 or 10 (max lol) than you because I have played for a year or three more, but that is what happens to those of us who got in early on a game.
More importantly, when my main in Eve was four years old, I started a new character, solely to be a pirate. The first couple of months were hard, my main could fly almost every ship I could want and even a lot I didn't want, I could use a couple weapon systems to perfection or near perfection, had much more flexibility in what to fly. New pirate was just Amarr. But by month six, I was getting fairly good skill progression as I planned to do something and do something well...more than well, as best as I could.
I maxed out cap, fitting, energy warfare, drones, Recon, every non-jump/portal nav etc all to level 5's. In a pilgrim/curse/neut legion I think I might be God lol. However my actual laser/gunnery skills were just-barely-into-T2 with supports still L3 or so. Not a single missile skill. But as a neuting machine, I was tops, and always welcome in gangs, and encouraged to do it instead of trying to do DPS unless it was needed (and I did at least have decent T2 gunnery).
Point is, my pirate character with less than half my main's SP is actually a lot better in some areas. Sure, still not as flexible as I've stayed focused on Amarr stuff, but easily better in a lot of ways than my main.
Even at 6mil SP (very young if you aren't familiar with Eve skill progression) I could kill a 5 year old player. I learned from some good pirates and the Agony team, but I am nowhere near as good as 90% of the other pvp'ers.
I'm not upset at where I've started in PO for the same reasons, and I don't believe anyone else should be either for the simple fact that there are so many extensions, and we all get EP at the same rate, that we couldn't possibly max them all out. More importantly, who would want to if it took as long as it does? Instead of trying to get max level in every skill and only getting a little ways there on each, I'd rather max out a few skills that are necessary for me to fit in, have a role, and enjoy playing.
I'm envious of the guys in Eve with 120+ mil sp, and I'll be envious of the PO players that have been here the longest with a heck of a lot more EP than I will ever have. I can't remember how many times though in Eve new or younger players would pine away with the "geez Angry I wish I had as many SP as you so I could do more." The same way I would to players older than me. But as time goes on, it really becomes meaningless. I still can't fly a carrier or any other capship in Eve, not with a 2004 char nor 2005's nor any others. I chose to specialize and those weren't in the plan for what I wanted to do.
Sorry to make this an Eve-PO comparison, but the skill/EP system is quite similar. There simply is no way to catch up to the older players, and there shouldn't be since they've put in the time and money. I have a feeling that the time it takes me to train up high levels is time I'll have to learn every nuance of the mechs I'm trying to pilot, as well as tactics, terrain, bonuses, etc.
Ok, now that was wall of text. I apologize.